Remembering a Century In The Making

Author: C.L. Harmon
Category: People | Uniquelahoma
Date Published: July 14, 2017
Remembering the life

Two years ago, on this day, an extra­or­di­nary lady passed away. She was not famous or rich, but she had a sig­nif­i­cant impact on their lives to many. We are remem­ber­ing she embod­ied a life of strug­gles and faith that should remind all how we live our own lives. For 100 years, she expe­ri­enced the dif­fi­cul­ties, sor­rows, and joys of this life, nev­er giv­ing up and nev­er giv­ing in. 

Below is a sto­ry I wrote a few months before her death. I felt that this anniver­sary of her pass­ing would be the per­fect time to share with Unique­la­homa read­ers the sto­ry of an Okla­homa woman who made this state a lit­tle bet­ter just by mak­ing a life here. I miss you, Grandma!

Remembering A Century In The Making

Only 14 years after the inven­tion of the first mod­ern car and just 12 years after the first flight by the Wright Broth­ers at Kit­ty Hawk, she came into this world. Now 100 years lat­er, in an age where there is nuclear pow­er, much speed air­craft, an Inter­na­tion­al Space Sta­tion, and com­put­er tech­nol­o­gy that process­es an unfath­omable amount of infor­ma­tion with­in the blink of an eye, she remains a wit­ness to it all.

Remember A Centurion

Her name is Mar­guerite Pease Den­ni­son, and on May 15, 2015, she became a cen­tu­ri­on. In her home in Cleve­land, 186 fam­i­ly mem­bers fun­neled in to pay their respects to this fam­i­ly patri­arch who raised four chil­dren while doing her small part of forg­ing a nation the rest of us call home. She sup­port­ed the war effort and her fam­i­ly dur­ing WWII as a “Rosie the Riv­et­er” work­ing at McDon­nell Dou­glas and then an inspec­tor at Spar­tan. She would hold oth­er jobs, be active in her children’s edu­ca­tion through the PTA and take care of her moth­er and moth­er-in-law as their health declined.

Remember Mother of the Year

She was raised in an era where work was the fun­da­men­tal prac­tice of the day. And she has spent the major­i­ty of her cen­tu­ry work­ing on one aspect or anoth­er. As any moth­er worth her salt can attest, rais­ing chil­dren is not only a labor of love but a love of the labor it takes to teach chil­dren how to be suc­cess­ful, pro­duc­tive cit­i­zens in soci­ety. She accom­plished these efforts while being a wife to her late hus­band Charles (Kih-ek-ah) and was rec­og­nized for hard work in 1950 as KOTV’s Moth­er of the Year. 

Her daugh­ters Char­lene and Mary real­ized how spe­cial their moth­er was and wrote a let­ter describ­ing her com­mit­ment to her entire fam­i­ly to the sta­tion for a con­test. They fur­ther explained that her gold­en rule to her chil­dren was always to treat oth­ers the way they wished. The sta­tion, too, rec­og­nized her efforts, and she was award­ed her prizes and hon­ors on the Bill & Dot­tie Show. The rest is his­to­ry, as they say.

First Elevator Operator in Tulsa

Begin­ning in 1949, she went to work for the First Nation­al Bank in Tul­sa as an ele­va­tor oper­a­tor; yes, I wrote “ele­va­tor oper­a­tor.” Peo­ple didn’t always push their but­tons. An inter­est­ing foot­note to that job was her wit­ness to the first esca­la­tor installed in Tul­sa. Her daugh­ter Sam­mie recalled vis­it­ing her moth­er at work on the day it was com­plet­ed and was one of the first to ride on the new gadget.

Before all of that, though, she was a mem­ber of the first grad­u­at­ing class of Monte Casi­no, com­plet­ing her eighth-grade edu­ca­tion. She would fin­ish the tenth grade at Chero­kee High School and even attend­ed Draughn’s Busi­ness School.

Sister to a Celebrity

It’s no won­der this woman under­stands the true mean­ing of fam­i­ly. This Osage mixed cen­tu­ri­on was raised with 17 sib­lings, one of which shared the lime­light with Will Rogers, Ben John­son, and oth­er famous cow­boys. Bar­ton Carter’s celebri­ty came after win­ning the World Rop­ing Cham­pi­onship in 1925 at Madi­son Square Gar­dens. She had a tiny sliv­er of fame in her own right too by play­ing a role in the movie “The Pris­on­er” as a young girl. Her moth­er owned a movie stu­dio and made movies with Cecil B. DeMille…well, it’s who you know in Hol­ly­wood, as the old say­ing goes.

Remember A Legacy of Family

Sad­ly the Depres­sion would come, and the stu­dio would go. But she was okay with that. God had dif­fer­ent plans for her, allow­ing peo­ple to remem­ber her with­out a movie screen. She fol­lowed God and her moth­er back to her birth­place of Okla­homa on her mother’s Osage allot­ment in Osage Coun­ty. He then put her on a path that has led to 125 descen­dants, mem­o­ries of help­ing count­less fam­i­ly mem­bers and friends over the last cen­tu­ry, and the respect earned by doing what is right even when the world around her is doing wrong.

In the Limelight at 100

Mar­guerite was recent­ly hon­ored by the Osage Tribe with the Sacred Eagle Fan Cer­e­mo­ny. This was done in hon­or of her 100 years in this life. The Osages believe that the eagle is the only crea­ture that can fly to the right hand of God and then return to earth.
Also, OSU inter­viewed her for its Cen­te­nar­i­an Project.

“I am very pleased that OSU inter­viewed me for their project. I have grand­chil­dren and great-grand­chil­dren who went to school there, and I know it must make them proud of me.”
By the way, did I men­tion that this remark­able woman is my grandmother? 

As a his­to­ry lover, I must say that I am in awe each time she and I vis­it. Not just by what she teach­es me about a world that exist­ed before me, but by the per­son she has helped mold in me through her count­less exam­ples of how a cen­tu­ry of life should be spent.

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C.L. Harmon

C.L. Harmon

C.L. is an award-winning journalist who spent many years in the newspaper and freelance fields. In addition to holding reporting and editing positions throughout his career, he also owned and operated a newspaper for several years. He was born, raised, and continues to reside in Oklahoma.

2 Comments

  1. George Pease III

    Always remem­ber Aunt Marge as smil­ing and a great sense of humor. I remem­ber Grand­pa Pease and Uncle Sam Pease teas­ing her, I think she was both their favorite.

    Reply
  2. WWW.XMC.PL

    Inter­est­ing post. Ill be stick­ing around to hear more from you guys. Thanks!

    Reply

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